If you’re looking for a sex partner, you might think that you’re just looking for somebody to share a physical activity with. I really can’t say I blame you if you think that way. In fact, most Americans think of sex as something primarily physical.
This speaks quite a bit to our evolution and maturity as a society because it seems that finally, we’re going to be able to separate sex from emotions. It’s very easy to see the downside to the tight pairing between sex and emotions. If that’s how you think, then it’s very easy to look at sex as some sort of territorial marking behavior.
When you have sex with somebody, it’s very easy to think at the back of your head that you somehow, someway own that person or you have rights over that person. I personally am glad that people have finally woken up to the fact that sex is really just a mixture of emotions and physical actions, and that you can separate these fairly safely if you have the right attitude.
The problem is that people who are looking for a sex partner are completely clueless about the need to separate emotions from sexual actions. Even guys who think that they are macho, and that they can do this safely and effectively end up putting themselves in situations where they get emotionally hurt and devastated because they’re completely clueless about this.
Do yourself a big favor. Understand that emotions play a big role in your life. Be on the lookout for signs that you are getting too emotional. If you’re able to do this, then you should be able to play the local fuckbuddy game quite well.